Counselling Centre for Adults Affected by Abuse

What Abuse Is - It is about POWER

 

 

Sexual assault is not about sex. It is an act of power, control and humiliation. It is any sexual act that is forced on another person and can have long lasting physical and emotional effects.

Many who come to the Centre have experienced other forms of abuse.

 

 

Sexual Assault

  • You have been sexually assaulted if you have been forced to kiss, fondle, or have anal, oral or vaginal intercourse with someone; or if you have been touched in a sexual way without your consent.

  • One in two females and one in three males have been the victim of one or more unwanted sexual acts.

  • Women and girls who are sexually assaulted are all ages, from 2 months to 96 years (reported). They come from all socioeconomic, educational, religious and ethnic backgrounds. In Canada, a woman is sexually assaulted every 6 minutes.

  • Women are sexually assaulted in their home 89% of the time, by someone they know 87% of the time and during the day 49% of the time.

Other Forms of Assault and Abuse

  • Psychological Violence: This encompasses various tactics to undermine one's self-confidence such as yelling, insults, mockeries, threats, abusive language, humiliation, harassment, contempt, deliberate deprivation of emotional care or isolation.

  • Physical Violence: The most obvious, ranges from pushing and shoving to hitting, beating, physical abuse with a weapon, torture, mutilation and murder.

  • Financial Violence: This encompasses various tactics for total or partial control of a person's finances, inheritance or employment income. May also include preventing a partner from taking employment outside of home or engaging in other activity that would lead to financial independence.
  • Spiritual Abuse: This works to destroy an individual's cultural or religious beliefs through ridicule or punishment, forbidding practice of a personal religion or forcing one to adhere to religious practices that are not one's own, etc.
 

Abuse occurs when one person manipulates or coerces another person into
doing something that he or she does not want to do. It is the infliction of direct
physical, sexual or psychological threat or harm, or the threat of being forced to
witness violence against a loved one.

 

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